People & Their Bad Intentions
I’ve just really gotten to a point where I don’t care to be around people who I KNOW don’t have my best interest at heart if I don’t have to. Some people I tolerate for the sake of peace or because we’re family but here lately .. my tolerance is low. I don’t have a desire to be around those who I know have sneaky motives and bad intentions period. 🤷♀️ Like I literally don’t have the energy to deal with what’s clearly negative nor am I trying to find the energy to even fool with it!
I find peace in keeping my distance. And honestly, a small part of me feels guilty for being so distant towards certain people because I know it probably makes them feel some type of way but the rest of me is SO content with it! If keeping my mental health at an all time positive high means I need to cut some people off, let some go or love them from a distance then I’m all for it! In this season of growth, I’m learning how to unapologetically do what’s best for ME. I don’t feel totally bad for pulling away from people. Sometimes you have to do that in order to get your point across. Sometimes you have to teach people how to treat you by what you allow, what you stop, and what you reinforce. If they can’t respect your limits, boundaries or just respect you period then they were never meant to be in your life in a healthy way! That can be a hard pill to swallow at times because the pain is caused by the people you least expect but it’s the truth.
Always do what’s best for YOU. If there’s anyone in your life who has a problem with you being at your best then you might want to rethink their position. If you notice there are certain people in your life who bring more heartaches than they do happiness then you need to rethink their position! Life is entirely too short for you to keep letting people stress you out with unnecessary foolishness. I’m just saying. Take care of you! xoxo! ❤
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