ONE Characteristic You Need to Make SURE Your Partner Has Before Getting Married !!!

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C O M M U N I C A T I O N !!

..& I’m not just talking about the basics of communication either. I’m talking about effective communication! Effective communication is not about exchanging information with your partner. It’s about making what you want to say, is what you actually say & your partner interprets consistently. The goal of effective communication is to create a common perception that is received in a positive manner, so that you can TOGETHER agree on a further action or decision…even if that just means that the other person will allow you to continue speaking! It’s important to be able to say what you want and need to say without it coming off as disrespectful or careless. I cannot stress enough how critical this type of communication is. You’ll save yourself a lot of arguments, headaches and stress in the future. Make sure your partner isn’t the type of person to get mad at you for expressing what upsets you… even if it’s not deep to them, it could be a serious matter for you and you want to make sure you have someone that will respect your feelings.. & you can’t tell your partner they can come to you about anything but simultaneously get heated when constructive criticism is throw your way, for the sake of the relationship.. you just {c a n n o t} do it. Genuine consideration and effective communication is they key and without it, your relationship/marriage is bound to fail.

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4 Comments on “ONE Characteristic You Need to Make SURE Your Partner Has Before Getting Married !!!

  1. When my husband and I first met, he sucked at communication. Everything came out angry or a “I don’t know”. Now, we are able to communicate without even speaking. Like mind Jedi tricks. LOL. Great post! I agree that communication is key to a healthy relationship, any relationship. ❤️❤️

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